Monday, October 1, 2007

How Committed Are You?

How Committed Are You?

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How committed are you to fulfilling and
achieving big things in your life? A
lot of you say you are 100% committed
but really only give maybe 30%. In the
past I have said I was committed to
something but my actions were not
consistent with what I was saying I was
committed to.

I can remember saying I wanted a full
practice but doing very little to market
my services. I also remember saying I wanted
to be wealthy and save money but I was
not committed to being responsible for
changing my financial situation. Can you
see where in your life you have been like this?

I am not beating myself up or any of you
for not being fully committed to your
dreams and goals. In fact, when my clients
see where they were not fully committed
and say things like "I know I should do",
I insistently cringe because that is not
at all what my work is about.

I do not believe that saying things to
yourself like "I should do" or beating
yourself up will get you dramatic results.
If anything it gets in the way and dis-empowers
you. What this work is about, is getting
you to be honest with yourself about
what doesn't work in your life and empowering
you to find ways to make your life work.

Honestly, not fully committing to your
goals and only giving 30% just does not
work. What can you do about it?

First, examine what is going in your mind.
When you commit to something big does your
mind usually perceive it as a big responsibility
and sacrifice? If I do this then I have to
give up that? That maybe true, but what will
you have to give up? Being irresponsible,
wasting time, not feeling inspired and
fulfilled, that seems like good baggage to lose.

Your mind may tell you will have to sacrifice
time, like being with your loved ones or
doing your favorite hobbies. But what actually
happens when you do fully commit and follow
through is that you start to enjoy and get
more satisfaction out of the time you spend
with loved ones and doing your favorite
hobbies.

Why, because when you commit and
participate fully in doing the big things
in your life that inspire and drive you,
your experience of life is more satisfying
and fulfilling.

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